My situation with the Local Church

[Drake]

Originally Posted by been there done that

the last couple of posters were obviously never in the lc during the 70s or even 80s, at least not in LA. Going back to Elden hall days and on through the 80s most of the marriages in the lc were arranged marriages of one sort or the other. As this forum has born out, many of these marriages fell apart because the only thing they had in common was the messages of Witness Lee and the strange practices such as calling on the Lord and pray reading. When push came to shove neither party had a real relationship with the Lord but only with the local churches of Witness Lee.

I personally witnessed many of these "arranged" marriages. More than one of them happened BEFORE either boy or girl really knew much about the other person. There is no doubt this weird practice game straight from the Chinese tradition which came from Witness Lee. Untold suffering and divorces came from these arranged marriages. Nobody hardly hears about these sufferings or divorces because of the secret nature of the local churches.

True that there was a flurry that occurred of quick introductions and then vows in the early days in Elden Hall.. However, it did not become and is not a practice in the local churches. If that week true in this situation we are discussing then the sister would not have ever shown interest in the brother who opened this thread or else she would gave hid it from everyone.

Furthermore, some couples are still together from those times and someone once said that those marriages suffered no more than others. Of course there is anecdotal evidence to support either case.

Still, I believe love to be very important but that is just me. But for the sake of the brother let's continue to provide him with sound advice.

Drake