Guilt is eating at me like a starving rat

[Sons to Glory!]

Originally Posted by least

STG,
"but where does it say we should give ourselves to the church? "

We ARE the church.

Christ gave himself to the church. Jesus died and resurrected. Ascended to the Father and made Lord and Christ. God gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him (the son) shall not perish but have everlasting life.
All the believers is the one body, the church, the body of Christ, the one new man, the bride of the Lamb of God.
Christ loves his own body, he nourishes and cherishes her.
The church is the bride. The bride is waiting for the bridegroom, not giving herself to herself.
A member of the body (the church) is already in the body; a part of the body does not marry (or divorce) the body.

Correct. I don't think there is specific scripture saying we should give ourselves to the church. If there is specific scripture to that effect, please point it out. (if there was specific scripture about that, I'm sure various ones would try to use it to their advantage.)

The point is, we are to give ourselves to Him.