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11-03-2014, 08:48 PM | #1 |
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Since we are nearing the holiday season, I wanted to hear what everyone has to say in regards to the LC and holidays. I will start off by saying that I don't agree with the LC position on holidays. Even though I am in the LC still, I do not attend their trainings, rather I spend the time with family.
For me, not celebrating holidays was one of the most peculiar aspects of growing up in the LC. I think what was the most traumatic for me was dealing with the inevitable ridicule at public school. It is not an easy thing for a kid to have to explain why they don't celebrate holidays. I had to come up with ways rationalize a choice that wasn't mine to begin with. In the modern LC, I don't see as much legality about not celebrating holidays, in terms of trying to make someone feel bad about it, but it is still frowned upon. They schedule trainings/conferences during all of the major holidays, so nowadays they can technically avoid the subject all together by simply getting everyone to attend their trainings. It has the side effect of keeping anyone from celebrating holidays. |
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Nearly each Christmas meant the 3-4 hour drive to Henderson, NV where we spent the Winter break with my grandmother and my mom's side of the family. |
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11-04-2014, 01:47 AM | #3 | |
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The whole holiday thing in the LRC is a mockery of loving God and loving others. It is such an intentional wedge between families.
I realize that Jesus did make that statement about there being division in families over the kingdom. But that was one statement and it had a context. But the issue was over Jesus and the kingdom, not the controlling actions of a "minister" to force his followers to choose at every normal opportunity. I find it interesting that Lee would eventually make overt the celebration of an indigenous Chinese holiday while retaining the overt disdain for every holiday that his culture would see as Western. Sort of underscores the real core of the teachings. They had to be different and they had to be understood as "revealed" through China. As for my experience, we typically ended out getting away to my wife's family on Christmas evening. Everyone lived in the area, so it was doable. Even when they had trainings in Irving and we had hospitality, we would leave a key with one of the guests and go to the Christmas event. And it was so liberating to stop having to make it such a short event when we left in 87. No more sneaking around. BTW. When we got married, it turned out that our choice of wedding days was still inside of the video training for one of the Dallas suburbs and they stated that anyone who skipped the meeting to go to it would be kicked-out of the training. Some still did, and I think they backed-down. But I don't recall for sure.
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I have noticed that things have loosened quite a bit over the past 10-15 years. I'm sure that all the FTT attendees are still under strict instructions to never miss a meeting, however the great majority of them have parents in the Local Church, so there's no celebration of holidays anyway.
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Based on the NT, Jesus would probably have attended your wedding and turned water into wine, if necessary. It should have been a time of celebration for everyone. I don't find the scriptures which would have Jesus saying, okay everyone, listen up, if you go to that wedding, you're toast, because I am giving some important training that I want you to attend. He probably would have used your wedding as a parable for His training in real life issues.
I am surprised they are loosening the reins on holidays. I guess people are just not calling "Oh Lord Jesus" enough, or pray-reading enough or shouting out loud enough in meetings, reading or watching enough Life-Studies or marching through the streets of their cities enough. If they were, why would they even care about getting together with families for holidays? They are just falling short of what the LC is all about.
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It's interesting to hear that some of those here were able to get away with celebrating Christmas, especially back in the day. I never was able to celebrate Christmas as a child. I think Thanksgiving was the one holiday that we did celebrate.
WL certainly held strong views on holidays, especially Christmas. I found 3 quotes by WL on Christmas. I had to laugh when considered how ridiculous all of these quotes would sound to someone outside the LC. What was he thinking? He didn't just disregard Christmas, he hated it with a passion, yet it appears in his later years he decided to tone down his rhetoric and even contradict his earlier speaking in order to shift his focus to the "new way". LS Hebrews Msg 56 Pg 624: Quote:
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In the LS of Revelation WL states that "Christmas is a blasphemy to Christ, and no Christian with a pure conscience should have anything to do with it." In the 3rd excerpt he states that "When they raise a question concerning Christmas, you should use the subject of Christmas to feed them. You should not try to adjust them harshly, since this would not be treating them as babes." So if Christmas is something no Christian with a pure conscience should have anything to do with, then why would he later say to use the subject of Christmas as some kind of ice breaker for new believers? It is evident by WL's quotes that he liked to adjust people "harshly", however, he tells everyone not to adjust new believers "harshly" in regards to Christmas. This is quite hypocritical if you ask me. I think that 3rd excerpt demonstrates the double standard in LC practice that WL created. In the orthopraxy thread, the subject of "hidden practices" in the LC came up. I think this excerpt demonstrates just that. According to WL's "new way" a new believer can enter the LC without having any realization about the real view on holidays and Christmas. WL's true view is what he said in the LS messages (which "new ones" don't get to read until later on). |
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Romans 14 5 One person esteems one day above another; another esteems every day alike. Let each be fully convinced in his own mind. 6 He who celebrates Christmas, observes it to the Lord;[a] and he who does not celebrate Christmas, to the Lord he does not celebrate Christmas. (My translation.) Witness Lee, again, overstepped his boundaries. It used to be that "we don't have any rules or regulations". I actually believed that in the face of all the evidence to the contrary. Nell |
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11-05-2014, 12:43 PM | #10 |
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Will you becoming out with the NT version of "Nell's translation"? I would be looking forward to it. I think you are on to something.
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I quietly stopped attending the trainings and instead I have attended family gatherings on holidays for several years now. I did get some flak from someone once because I chose to attend a Christmas gathering instead of the training, and I took the opportunity to share how I felt about the issue. I pointed out that WL's teaching regarding Christmas has only resulted in strife and hard feelings between family members. It is quite a statement to forsake a family gathering to attend a training. The bottom line is that WL's teaching regarding holidays have serious implications. I like the verses from Romans 14 that were posted. Where is the freedom in the LC for individuals to make their own decisions without having to be "secretive" about their decisions? |
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Here's another passage where Lee lays out the pagan origins of Christmas: Quote:
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I think that Lee really dug himself into the a hole with what he said. Once he said anything, it was set in stone, even if he said something later to contradict himself. I think that most of what he said was colored to support whatever he was trying to push at that particular point in time. When he was doing the LS of Revelation, the theme was the LC being the antithesis of Babylon. When he was doing his "new way" it was all about his supposedly infallible methods to take care of new believers. (Even though he had the tendency to blast other Christians/new believers for their "pagan" practices, among other things.). A while back I listened to a recording of James Barber where he calls Christmas "Paga-mas" (a conjunction of pagan and Christmas). I can only imagine the hard-lined attitude about holidays back in the day. Once Lee got everyone associating holiday with being Pagan, that was it. Holidays were not to be celebrated, period. Has the attitude changed? Maybe a little bit. I do think the attitude has been relaxed, however, it seems the real purpose is that some leading brothers realize being too strict about holidays is a deal breaker for many of those new to the LC (who would have known? ). But then again Lee states that "Many dear ones have seen the Lord’s recovery, but due to the matter of Christmas, they sold their birthright". So I guess LC leadership must choose to contradicting Lee in order to do a better job at not scaring people away. |
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In 1966 Ralph Woodrow, of Riverside, CA, wrote and published Babylon Mystery Religion, which was in essence a summary of Hislop's book. It sold hundreds of thousands and was translated into several languages. Woodrow became quite a celebrity and was regarded worldwide as an expert on "paganism mixed into Christianity." Then, in 1997, he published The Babylon Connection? in which he not only recanted his own best-seller book but essentially repudiated and distanced himself from Hislop's claims and said that his "'history' was often only mythology". However, we continued to eat this "mythology" and I would not be surprised if Hislop is still prescribed. It was regularly stated in Local Church meetings at the time that "you are what you eat" – which, translated, meant don't go shopping because going shopping is going to hell, you do not go to the movies, you do not watch TV, you do not read newspapers but only US News & World Report, you do not celebrate Christmas because it is pagan, do no celebrate birthdays, do not give gifts, do not have friends in the church but only brothers and sisters; be alienated from your parents and siblings and friends because they have not "seen". Naturally, apart from Life-Studies and footnotes from the Gold Bars, we also dug into Hislop and Miller and Alford and Darby. We became thoroughly constituted with things that rendered us too constipated to live normal lives. Many of the concepts we still carry within us had their origins in the Local Church "must-have" reading diet (including the LSM staple) and we thus had become physically and emotionally repressed and/or inhibited, unable to properly relate to anyone, because we had been gorging ourselves. We became "damaged goods" by consuming the LSM brand of Kool-Aid: without form, colorless, odorless, tasteless poison that apparently permanently debilitated our spiritual being. We never even realized this synergism took place within our beings and when we left we were stuck with the long, long-term after-effects resulting in spiritual inertia. Paul already saw this 2,000 years ago in Colossae: "Let no one disqualify you, insisting on asceticism … why, as if you were still alive in the world, do you submit to regulations — 21 "Do not handle, Do not taste, Do not touch" 22 (referring to things that all perish as they are used)—according to human precepts and teachings?" (Colossians 2:18, 20–22, ESV).That is what caused us to lose our humanity, "chewing the cud", the whole caboodle that desensitized us and rendered us incapable to interact with literally everyone. In the church life we developed a special, sought-after spiritual schizophrenia that enabled us to live two lives (one, in the church life; two, outside the church and meeting lives) yet we testified in the church we live the one life. We lost touch with reality and we literally became deaf mutes (no offense intended) whenever we entered a non-Local Church environment. We cannot hear and we cannot speak. We learnt about Life, Light and Love and we can probably all recognize them. When you meet Christians, check the boxes for all three. If one is missing, you are bound to drink more colorless, poisonous Kool-Aid. Then, rather run for your life … or what is left of it! (I would encourage everyone to read the testimony of Mario and Dora Sandoval who had to endure emotional and mental assault and abuse from the new men produced by the new way. They were treated in a most unrighteous way by the Blendeds and their minions. Indiana or Terry provided a link to their testimony on this thread. Now, this is a must-read.) Last edited by Friedel; 11-06-2014 at 04:53 AM. Reason: Correction |
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I have been communicating some with Steve Isitt during the past few days. He introduced me to the story of Mario and Dora Sandoval.
I cannot recall when last I was so upset over something executed and condoned by the Blendeds and their underlings. Now, after posting below and thinking about the LSM's peculiar brand of Kool-Aid, it suddenly struck me why they are what they are. They suffer from the Masada complex: they will never admit they are/were wrong and they will never, ever apologize. They will rather die before giving in to anyone. In the meantime they will continue dishing out their Kool-Aid. |
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You're too kind!!
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In the FTTT it was said of Lee "Even when he's wrong, he's right". So in regards to what he said regarding holidays, apparently everything he said still applies, even that which contradicts itself. It must be really confusing for those who try to follow his instructions to a 'T'. |
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