In a period of discernment

[Dave]

Originally Posted by Loveneverfails

Anyway, that jarring experience spurred me to go on a second round of researching LSM. Even my fiance (born in Taiwan and raised in the LC) had to admit that the things I was finding were disturbing. We are now in a season of research, fellowship, prayer, and discernment as we try to determine what the Lord may want us to do. I have been lurking around this site for the past few weeks, and I am so thankful to have a place to read so many testimonies from past LC members. Reading about your experiences really helps me get a more broad perspective of the situation I'm facing. Thank you.

Normally I would suggest that you not just walk away but that you should run as fast as you can away from the LC. In your case, you seem insightful and intuitive so I believe you will make the right decision for yourself and with your fiancé. Your testimony is remarkable. Find some Christians you can relate to and meet with them is my suggestion. You may be drawn back to the LC but hopefully you will understand that there is no realistic future with them.

[awareness]

If loveneverfails and her fiancé need something to give their whole life to the local church will do the job.

Joining is a serious life impacting decision, with real repercussions.

For this reason I wouldn't pray about this matter. I would weight what I and my fiancé needed out of life, both now, and what is seen in the future together, and do what's best to that end. And that's a very important matter. Like getting married, in fact.

[Dave]

Originally Posted by awareness

If loveneverfails and her fiancé need something to give their whole life to the local church will do the job.

Joining is a serious life impacting decision, with real repercussions.

For this reason I wouldn't pray about this matter. I would weight what I and my fiancé needed out of life, both now, and what is seen in the future together, and do what's best to that end. And that's a very important matter.

I am sure that awareness would add as an addendum to his advice the following: ...and then pray about it...because prayer is an important part of the decision making process. In this case, prayer would lead you both to the same comfort zone which is what is important in your relationship....take care...dave

[Loveneverfails]

Originally Posted by Dave

I am sure that awareness would add as an addendum to his advice the following: ...and then pray about it...because prayer is an important part of the decision making process. In this case, prayer would lead you both to the same comfort zone which is what is important in your relationship....take care...dave

I agree. Prayer is essential. Thank you.