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Join Date: Mar 2014
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I know we just discussed this recently, but one form of the control is simple group pressure, such as publicly putting people on the spot to ask if they can do something. Leaders are just so good at giving control a guise of spirituality. It took me a long time to see what really goes on and how manipulative things really are. As I have said, the control/authority issues that I have run into have been subtle, but nevertheless, they have been there. It's been hard to put my finger on it at times, but eventually I came to realize that there was a problem. For example, a few years back, I realized that I needed to stop answering phone calls from certain LCers. There wasn't any explicit control happening, but I knew that I needed to do that in order to remove myself from situations where I was inadvertently submitting myself to other people who were taking advantage of me. |
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