Why not just move on?

[Cal]

Originally Posted by jesusislord

No church is perfect, if the Lc doesn't suite you or abused by anyone within it, isnt it easier or healthier to just forgive and move on? Keep lingering or live in the past is wasting time and adding more negativity to ourselves. I know it's hard to move on completely coz some of us spent yrs within it and got damaged..

You answered you own question. Why not just move on from any trauma? Because the trauma has produced issues that are not trivial.

Another reason is some dwell on the issue of the LR to help others. It isn't about them, it's about helping other process the experience of the group.