I have been watching-on here from the side-lines. But I do want to say something now.
Thank you, younger generation, ECK’s, for persevering with your message. Though it’s a bit raw and messy, this is the way towards a breakthrough of sorts, in mutual understanding. IMO.
The older generation who have paved the way by learning the harm, then setting up this forum, have done so in recognition that this information is important for the wellbeing of anyone and everyone who has been hurt by the LC.
However, as they are, in the main, individuals who have either maintained or returned to their fundamental Christian faith, this factor has been part of their motivation, and part of their conviction. That is to say, unpacking and unravelling the ways the true message of the bible has been distorted and re-aligned to ‘endorse’ WL and his various, personal agendas is one main theme of this forum. As is obvious I know. However, they have meant no harm in this, its their (mine too) comfortable place.
However, an important ‘blind spot’ has been identified in this thread. In the comradery and enthusiasm of unpacking the false doctrines together, being free to discuss our faith openly is a very normal part of our discussions. We did not know until now, the triggering effect this has the potential to have on the younger generation. To learn that it actually keeps some or potentially many, ECK’s from signing up and entering the discussions, and/or puts ECK’s right off is an important thing to recognize. And well worth being aware of. it is certainly not at all intended. It may seem trivial to long-time posters, who, like me, love to discuss faith. However, these discussions look very different to those whose spiritual abuse is raw. To become aware of, and able thereby to validate and be sensitive to those who are ‘triggered’ by religious talk could really help this forum to be a helpful place to many more individuals. In turn, helping it to achieve its goals, especially towards supporting ECK’s and younger generation.
After all, to serve the demographic speaking out in this thread, is to listen and be prepared to think of ways to create a suitable space that does not talk Christian-ese at them. And realize this is very important. Even if Christian doctrine is discussed, to be done so in a way that does not cross boundaries. Being informed and in mutual understanding about what those boundaries are. I think this is a great development!
I know how off-putting Christianity is when delivered in a 'religious spirit' from my own personal history. I recognized that religious tone taking over in my meetings with LC'ers and that contributed to my ceasing to meet. If conversations here are perceived in that tone by those whose only experience has been in such an atmosphere, then no wonder it becomes a non-starter. I get it
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We are perhaps, guilty of insensitivity.