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Old 12-29-2016, 04:21 PM   #32
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Default Re: My situation with the LC

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Originally Posted by OGOP View Post
I don't agree with: "If they agree then great, if not go your separate ways and move on."

Whether it be a friend, bf, gf, etc. If you care about somebody you should give it your all to help that person find a "healthier church", if you will.
What I meant was don't get contentious with her or try to push her. One thing all men need to learn about women is we can't make them do anything. Trying to just makes things worse.

Part of my point is that if she doesn't want to leave the LCM and you don't want to join you probably should put the "couple" side of your relationship on the back burner until you are on the same stove. Does that make sense?
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