11-13-2020, 05:15 PM | #1 |
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Reflecting on John Ingalls' Actions
Hi all, I'm a longtime lurker and former church kid (I'll try to write an introduction at some point). I've been reading Speaking the Truth in Love and wanted to share some of my questions and thoughts.
First, I want to say that while I am critical of Ingalls, I can't entirely blame him. Being so close to Witness Lee for all those years obviously affected him, so my critiques are mainly aimed at the actions, not the man. From reading this forum, I understand that Philip Lee sexually assaulted women who worked in the LSM office; however, Ingalls never says that explicitly. Personally, I think that hiding the reality in vague descriptions protects the perpetrator far more than the victim. Regardless, he must have known the grittier details of the matter, and his lack of action is terrible. He emphasizes the fact that he never demanded that Philip Lee be removed, but that's exactly what he should have done. Simply accepting Witness Lee's inability to do nothing for months meant that a sexual predator remained in contact with members of the church and in control of the ministry. I've gotten to the point where the church in Anaheim found out about the allegations and it exemplifies why it is a terrible idea to tuck these things under the rug. Hiding it only protected Philip and Witness Lee, who seemed completely fine with letting it go. If they immediately removed Philip and apologized to the church for ever allowing him to serve in that capacity, I think most would respect that, but when people discovered that they kept it secret and kept Philip in his position for months, they were rightfully angry. |
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When I first read STTIL, I wondered about that too. When I consider who John was as a person, I believe his writing style was totally in character. I heard him speak in person many times. A few times John would come through Texas at the invitation of local saints. I was invited to join the fellowship. John was a true gentleman. He was exceedingly dignified and respectful. Having been put in a position to write STTIL at all was likely very distasteful to him. I believe Ephesians 5:3 was heavy in his heart as he wrote: 3 But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; Quote:
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John was an elder in the Church in Anaheim. I don't know that he was a board member, or some such in the "family business." I think John did as much as he could morally and legally do. As it was, STTIL pretty much blew the lid off of Phillip's criminal behavior. No one had any doubts that sexual impropriety was what John was talking about. Quote:
When John and Godfred went to Lee and exposed his son's crime, Lee was the one who did the hiding. It was up to Lee to clean up his son's mess. Lee hung the elders in Anaheim, John, out to dry. It's been awhile since I read the book, but I don't think the situation was as simple as it may seem. Phillip was serving in "the office", not the Church in Anaheim. John couldn't remove Phillip from the Lee family business. I'll read through the book again to refresh my memory on it, but this is my first thoughts on your post. Nell |
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Hi Nell,
Thank you for your very thoughtful reply. I realized that in my haste to post about my thoughts, I was overly and unfairly critical of John Ingalls. I apologize. I'll try to better express myself and respond to your points. Quote:
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I guess what bothered me was the brothers accepting that Witness Lee would do anything less than taking immediate action to rectify the situation (removing Philip and listening and responding to the victims compassionately and justly). However, in John's position, I may very well have done the same thing. If I had worked with him for years and believed him to be the minster of the age, it probably would have taken a lot for my faith to be shaken. As someone who is now removed from the LC and never knew WL personally, it is easy to see his behavior for what it was, but I realized I could not expect the same from someone who esteemed him so highly. I think this goes to a matter that has been central to many discussions here: covering the brothers. The well meaning brothers trusted that by covering the situation, WL would handle it properly, and the church could go on healthily, but then he didn't, left the elders to deal with the outrage, and blackballed them when they tried to explain what had actually happened. I believe this clarifies what I wanted to say earlier, I don't wish to be unfairly negative or harsh. I hope this thread can be a site of discussion for anyone reading the book for the first time or returning to it. |
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The points you made were rational in most situations...except in the context of the Local Church/LSM. They do things differently there. They use words differently. Phillip Lee was a reprobate son protected by his father. I believe it has been stated before that WLee may have actually been "afraid" of Phillip to some extent, and had little to no control over him. It seems that Phillip was a bully. Quote:
I was a "legal assistant" in another life, and typed up many "Petitions" initiating a lawsuit. Mostly personal injury. The Petition always claimed that the Plaintiff's injuries had broken every bone in his body, pulled and tore every muscle, his life was permanently altered, he could never work again...on and on...and it was all the fault of the Defendant. The real injury was in there somewhere, but they cover all the bases "just in case." Eventually, everything is thrown out except the real cause of action. I could imagine such a case with a Lee Family lawsuit. Massive overstatement of "facts" and damages, etc.. John could come out looking like the criminal and Phillip the poor victim of John and some naughty sister's imagination. This has been the pattern of the LSM lawsuits. Quote:
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"John, I remember something you said in that conference that I will never forget." His eyes started to get real big and he had an "uh-oh" look on his face. "You said that you would never leave the way of 'life and building'. Even if Witness Lee himself were to leave and take another way, you could not abandon what you had seen in the Word of God as the path for believers and in meeting together as the church." (Paraphrased) His eyes were saucers now. He s-l-o-w-l-y said, "I did?" "Yes. You did." We were all cracked up laughing at him now. He was very expressive when he talked about almost anything! Those who heard John speak in conferences or knew him personally can imagine the look on his face! My point in reminding him about his statement in that conference was this: he was true to his word. Witness Lee was not faithful to the vision he brought to all of us. John had seen something from the Lord, and he was faithful to the Lord...not Witness Lee. Witness Lee had changed, or maybe, Witness Lee was never faithful to his own ministry. Maybe he had the family business and his sons as priorities. That said, you're right. John had been with Lee for at least 20+ years. I'm sure John loved Witness Lee like a brother and the personal ties they shared were very real. Quote:
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I remember a conversation I had with Ray Graver when I was a newbie. He asked me if "whoever" was "negative". I said "No. They weren't negative. The situation was negative." I think we can put STTIL in that category. Thanks for the post! Nell |
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Hey Davis,
Welcome to the forum! Thrilled to see another church kid here. Please do post an introduction when you have time. Nell has done a wonderful job, so I only have a very small thing to add. Regarding not being explicit concerning Philip Lee's affairs, what came to my mind there also was just the church life culture of simply not being explicit when it comes to sexually related things. It's incredibly common even for elders directly handling negative sexual situations to stay in the realm of vaguery even in their fellowship with one another. It's just the local church culture, and John may not have been comfortable breaking out of that particular mold. (Not to mention all the other very good points Nell mentioned.) I remember after I left the LC and visited around to numerous churches, in one church the pastor referenced sex (married sex) in a very positive and appropriate way a couple times in the middle of a sermon that was not generally about that topic. I was blown out of my seat to hear anything like that "in church", being a local church church kid myself who would NEVER have heard anything like that in any meeting in the LC, but as I looked around, no one in the congregation looked uncomfortable at all. As I'm sure you are aware, there is a very specific culture in the local church when it comes to many things. Anyway, as I said, hopefully you'll post some more when you have the chance. Trapped P.S. Sexual predators being covered up, and victims being blamed, still goes on in the local church, particularly when it occurs close to Anaheim. It takes a lot of uproar and chain-rattling for the brothers who cover the brothers to get off their rear ends and do anything. Although usually what they do is shuttle the offender off to another locality, not tell anyone, shun the victim who spoke up, and act like none of it occurred. Still. To this day. |
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Hi Davis,
I don't mean to dogpile on you. You have raised some valid concerns which relate to a very interesting topic. There is a lot of history in Speaking The Truth In Love, by John Ingalls. I had forgotten what an undercurrent was going on worldwide during 1987-1989. I'm only through p.39 but John has several times mentioned untruths that were being spoken and he felt he must correct the record. It appears that these untruths John spoke of were a reference to an out of print book written by Witness Lee during that time called The Fermentation of the Present Rebellion. What an awful title! It was copyrighted in 1990, as was STTIL, but "Fermentation" was written first and John was correcting the record. So far, I find no mention of Phillip Lee's molestation of female workers in the office as a possible cause for anything that might be characterized as a "rebellion." Of note, "Fermentation" may have been one of many "give away" books that used to be handed out free. This also might explain why it's out of print. Here's an example of how the discourse went: "From Fermentation, p. 51 ...When Brother Eugene suggested coming together in Anaheim for fellowship, John refused, saying that they should rather go to another city where nobody knew them and check into a hotel and meet there. In other words, he wanted to keep the meetings secret. ... John had called Ray Graver to invite him to go to El Paso to have the secret meeting but Ray rejected John's proposal. Again Eugene proposed that the meeting be in Irving, Anaheim or Denver. This proposal too was rejected by John Ingalls. This shows that there was a deliberate effort to hide the matter from open fellowship." Speaking the Truth in Love, p. 8 John: One of the brothers I sought to contact and confer with was Ray Graver, an elder in the church in Irving, Texas, and the manager of the LSM branch office there. I called him in Texas and proposed that I come to see him in Irving. It was thought, however, for us to meet in Irving would attract too much attention; so we settled on meeting midway in El Paso, Texas. This decision is being censured now as a plan for a secret meeting, as if that in itself is evil and a conspiracy. But I fail to see anything wrong with this. It was with a pure motive and desire and certainly was not a plot to draw him into a conspiracy to overthrow anyone’s ministry. Ray was quite willing to do this until Benson Phillips, another co-worker and elder in Irving, Texas, who was then in Taiwan, advised him against it. Had Benson been in Irving, I would have sought to speak with him also. I enjoyed a very good and close relationship with both Ray and Benson for many years Nell Last edited by Nell; 11-16-2020 at 08:51 AM. |
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The excerpts from The Fomentation of the Present Rebellion point back to your earlier comment that John was advised to give an account, yet doing so at all was distasteful to him. Reading STTIL changes quite a bit when you remember that it was a defense against Witness Lee's account. Throughout John's testimony, it is clear that he handled matters with care and respect that were partially derived from his love for the LR and Witness Lee, yet WL and brothers loyal to him twisted his actions so they could interpret his candid dissent as rebellious and negative.
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The saints in Anaheim responded positively to these, except for the WL adulators. These were never intended to be personal attacks, rather items of the truth, spoken in love, to reform and correct that which had deviated from the truth, the "vision." Didn't Witness Lee often tell others, "if I deviate from God's economy, do not follow me?" Immediately, however, the Blended toadies proclaimed these Points as a direct attack on WL and his ministry. "They're negative poison, don't even read them!" I believe that these Points posted by the Anaheim elders were more dangerous to WL/LSM than the Philip Lee alleged rape allegations. John Ingalls by this time knew that these points basically were his "Recovery" suicide, yet he stood fast on his convictions. Had this been the Dark Ages, he would have been burned at the stake like William Tyndale or John Huss.
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First, TC maintained a stellar reputation among his own loyalists that he never played politics like the Blendeds, preferred to offend man than to be a man-pleaser, and would never compromise the truth of God. He had the resolve of sharpened iron, being the son of a Nationalist General under Chiang Kai-shek. Then to my shock, I read how he flip-flopped overnight on standing with Ingalls' concerns, obviously because WL forced him to choose sides. Not choose the truth, but to choose WL. Many Midwest brothers never knew what really happened back then until the Quarantine hit the Midwest and all these old accounts by the so-called "conspirators" were made public on these forums. TC betrayed John Ingalls, yet afterwards he would only say that, "WL is my spiritual father, and his mistakes are none of my business." Looking back, that is no different than saying, "Dad's mistakes are none of our business, even if he often beats mom." Second, karma hit TC hard during the quarantine. The long-time leaders in Chicago (BB and JR) constantly voiced their support for TC against the Blended's many complaints. JR would proclaim, "Christians have died for the right to publish books," one of LSM's major grievances. Then BB suddenly flip-flopped his support overnight, after TC shamed him over some insignificant local matter. Once LSM had the support of greater Chicago, they quickly moved to isolate TC and expel him. TC later minimized the move saying it was merely a "business decision."
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Months? Why not years? It was around 1977/1978 when Max confronted Phillip. Who knew besides Max at that time? Albert Knoch, Francis Ball, Gene Gruhler, John Ingalls? In hindsight of the late 1980's, what was apparently rumor/common knowledge to many in the Church in Anaheim, John Ingalls didn't know. When action was taken against Phillip Lee, many probably felt it was overdue.
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Thanks to PriestlyScribe, I suspect, for coming up with the website: www.johningalls.com
My face to face interaction was limited to a Southern California vacation in 2010. Driving from where I was staying to Anaheim was not all that far. Though John met at Church Assembly in Westminster, it was another brother MB (whose son I had been friends with 1973-1981) who invited me. Another brother BG I knew from the church in Anaheim met there too. Back in the 70's BG's wife used to drive me to speech therapy. My 22 month your old son Nathan, would not sit still in the meeting for my wife and I. He ran up to the front row and sat contently with John duration of the meeting. My wife and I were surprised any hyperactivity Nathan had was gone. In the lunch that followed the meeting, John invited MB, my wife, and I among others to his home for lunch the following Tuesday. It was a very good time. John admitted to us he appreciated Witness Lee's ministry. Much of what blended brother types have to say about John verbally and online are lies. There are former elders that have had negative things to say about Witness Lee, but John was not one of them. Not to me.
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However, as WL was speaking those seemingly commendable words, what he may have been also saying under his breath was "If I deviate from God's economy, don't you dare to expose my deviation! Just leave quietly" This possible "double-think" may explain why WL could in Pasadena make this grand 'virtue-signalling' statement, recorded for us in STTIL: "Near the end of his word he proclaimed, I don’t care for the loss of any church. Even if the entire U. S. A. is closed to me I don’t care. I only care for ten to twenty faithful ones meeting together to practice the truth." Link And then part of the above quote might be further translated as: I only care for ten to twenty faithful ones meeting together who exalt me! P.S.
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