Spouse In The Local Church - How Do You Handle It?

I feel uneasy even posting this, but my heart is heavy these last few days, especially after reading Joanna's thread. I was in the local church over 30 years. My husband is still deeply in it although he graciously comes with me to a local church near us. I am grateful for that.

I can't believe the things that have happened in these last few years in the LC. The early years were nothing like this. I know this has to be the Lord's work to open his eyes. I have spoken very little to him about it but it's hard to be quiet and not get all rattled about it. My husband is a wonderful man. I just do not get it. I have gone to the Lord many times over this. Speaking to my husband only makes it worse.

There must be many out there who have spouses still in the LC. How do you handle it?