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Originally Posted by Shawn
I have felt the direction SC offered in the last several posts has been what I have tried to sugest in the past on the other forum,but have always been perplexed at the responses, that have cast me in the role of the abuser; a place I never intended to be in.
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It's a delicate matter to tell a person they can benefit from a particular personal suffering, and most people wisely don't go there. Imagine if a friend of yours lost a child. Would you ever tell them that the experience is a great chance for personal growth?
Suffering is always a chance for growth. But talking that way can easily have ring of "get over it."
09-14-2008, 10:27 AM
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