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RE: Open Letter - Dear Saints in the Lord's Recovery
Please post any responses to this Open Letter here on this thread.
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06-11-2019, 11:12 PM | #2 |
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Re: Open Letter - Dear Saints in the Lord's Recovery
Someone was wondering the when the letter was written....she referenced her child born in 2018, so it is fairly recent, I think
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06-12-2019, 12:27 AM | #3 |
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Thank you byHismercy.
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06-12-2019, 07:49 AM | #4 |
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Reading thru this family's story, I continually oscillated between sad and mad. I was active in the Ohio area LC's from mid-70's to the mid-00's, and what I read in their account was for the most part different than anything I had ever seen.
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I told the story where a Blended was giving a conference and looked down from the podium and started querying a 'local church brother' about his relations with his wife. Unbeknownst to the Blended, the brother's wife had left him. The brother sat there red-faced, while the Blended went on. Nobody in the meeting said anything. (several hundred were present) But if you say anything to the Blendeds about their family life? Forget it! No chance. What rules is fear. They say there's no hierarchy but some get to 'call out' others without reciprocity. And everyone knows it.
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The other thing I liked about the post was that I've long felt that more females should speak up about the legacy of abuse. Here's what I wrote 6 months ago:
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That and the person writing from the PRC were the best things I've seen all year. It just takes one courageous person to speak up. One little 'Toto' to pull back the wizard's curtain. Quote:
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It wasn't just with LSM, the elders, or the brothers that this "pecking order" was apparent. About the time my wife and I were leaving the "program," another deacon and his wife suddenly visited us. They were both on the verge of tears, almost in a state of shock. They both had been selflessly serving our young people for years. They had just left a time of "fellowship" with an elder and his wife. The elder's wife had tirelessly castigated this deaconess in front of their husbands over basically nothing. It was not about anything she had done, but "it's all about who you are!" All we could do is comfort them and explain that it's just the way things are.
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I was born and raised in the LC, so very much of this letter resonated with me. It is difficult to put into words how frightening and isolating it can be to question this system when you've been born into it, and the authors of the letter did a good job of encapsulating that feeling. Last edited by RambleOn; 06-12-2019 at 12:21 PM. Reason: Adding a word. |
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06-14-2019, 01:03 PM | #9 |
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It's very hard to leave a cult that you've grown up in.
So kudos to Greg and Joanna for having the courage to walk out. And I hope their testimony encourages others to do so. "Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery None but ourselves can free our minds ..." - Bob Marley - Redemption Song
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06-14-2019, 03:57 PM | #10 |
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The replies to the letter posted on Facebook are quite interesting
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06-14-2019, 05:26 PM | #11 |
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Hi, ...I just recently began to learn about all the hidden history of the LR. To you all that have been aware of this for a while, how do you evaluate the impact of this letter from the Casteelīs and all the Facebook responses so far? I know there are many other documents from others and letters, etc., but how do I put this letter and responses into perspective?
In other words, does this open FB post with so many saints supporting and confirming with their own experiences seem like something really big is happening and gaining momentum, like the cat is really out of the bag now, or maybe just not yet? Thanks! (me? just a brother in the church for years and years looking to the Lord to understand.....) |
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