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Old 12-27-2018, 02:55 PM   #32
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Default Re: Practically engaged to an LCer

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Originally Posted by Nell View Post
..your explanation won't mean much to a woman in love.
But is she really in love or just stringing some poor sap along, that's the question. If she becomes unhappy when her BF has an opinion, that may indicate that her mind's controlled by an outside force which sees opinions as threats; a force quite antagonistic to the freedom we have in Christ Jesus (cf Gal. 2:4).

And if this is so, where's her heart? Available for love, or already taken? Some may find such questions to be devastating to romantic notions but at this juncture they may be quite necessary if the romance is to endure, and grow.
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