[Ohio]

I'm not so sure how widespread that practice is. The real problem, from my point of view, is the constant need for LC elders to place their church leadership at LSM ahead of the needs of the people they should be shepherding. Each elder is different, and some do have the heart of a shepherd. Unfortunately, I have seen many of these true shepherds driven out because their "loyalties" were in question. I mean that. I have seen way too much LC so-called "fellowship" to be beneficial in the short term but with long term painful consequences.

I believe her parents' blessing on your relationship is far more important than the elders', especially since he is a Baptist pastor, who has given his life to care for God's children. I would hope that she feels the same way.