[awareness]

If loveneverfails and her fiancé need something to give their whole life to the local church will do the job.

Joining is a serious life impacting decision, with real repercussions.

For this reason I wouldn't pray about this matter. I would weight what I and my fiancé needed out of life, both now, and what is seen in the future together, and do what's best to that end. And that's a very important matter. Like getting married, in fact.