[ZoeGrace]

Hello, again. I wanted to stop by and post that I really appreciate all the advice. I have been encouraged by your words. I do believe my greatest fault was trying to control and “over-think” the issues and no patience for the Lord to do His work in me. Focusing and worrying about where my husband and I are today is basically doubting that the Lord can resolve everything in His time. I was also so overwhelmed with guilt for not wanting to follow the Recovery, a good portion of it self imposed, that I made everything worse. Since I have stopped pushing back, it has certainly been better. I do enjoy browsing the comments here as they continue to give me insight into the Recovery. This site has also helped me to be much more empathetic with my husband as he is a victim also. Maybe victim is too strong a word, I don't know. Thank you for having such a great resource to help people involved with the Recovery.