[JJ]

Right. Thanks Nell and Unto Him for speaking truth in love on this matter.

While there is no prohibition against dancing in scripture, sexually suggestive movements (common in many forms of dancing today) allowed on this site that children and persons struggling with self control in this matter would see may send the wrong message about the purpose of this site (discussion of God’s truth).

Good call Unto Him. I struggled with youthful lust and pornography when I was younger, even as a Christian. But, thankfully Jesus has delivered me from that, and still does every day through the power of His Holy Spirit.

Bradley, your horrible past marriage (in which your wife made you abstain from sex and beat you according to your past posts) is not a benchmark of a proper Christian experience. That is not an excuse to think that indulging in sex outside of marriage has anything to do with God’s will for your life.

Scripture (Paul again) suggests that it is better for you to marry than to burn. Find a sister (lot’s of churches and Christian web sites have connecting opportunities for that) who respects and heeds what scripture commands with respect to sex and everything (there are many who are looking for a mate just like you) and marry her.