[Sons to Glory!]

I agree with Nell here - seeking Him and His speaking for you is always the best! And there certainly are many non-formal home gatherings and other gatherings that are not all steeped in the "traditions of men" and systems which dampen the functioning of the members. To me, the best is where there is no one trying to put any legalism of some ministry upon you. Some home gatherings are really just the off-shoots of some established ministry, which may have an agenda (however good or not-so-good that might be). Other gatherings are more independent (this would be my preference).

Each of us has the Anointing/Christ within, and we really don't need all of the outward forms or teachings that are supposed to guide us in our daily life (i.e., in an old covenant way of the letter). What we do need is to be with others who are loving Him and seeking Him in the simplicity in Christ, and where everyone can share their portion of Him without any constraint!

(and that's not to say the Lord wouldn't lead you to a more traditional type gathering . . . I know a number of ex-LCers who meet in traditional denominational settings. But these "churches" often have some other small groups where functioning is freer.)