[Trapped]

No, wait, Love, we are in agreement. I don't think you read carefully what I said....not sure. My statement was this: "I agree with you that it is ridiculous to conclude that just because homosexual sex is a choice, then homosexual attractions are also a choice."

I said that it's ridiculous to say that just because we can choose to have sex, means that we can choose who we are attracted to. I'm totally agreeing with you that attractions are NOT a choice. I don't know how much more clear to say it.

Thanks for the suggestion to suck things though. We are literally in 100% agreement.....not sure why you reacted that way.

Also, check your last post to me. I added a line to the end of your post. I noticed that if I am not logged in, then I (and ostensibly anyone) has the ability to edit your post. Your contributions are valuable; I think it would be great if you did register, if only just so no one can edit your posts and claim you said something you didn't say.

And by the way, you are talking to someone who hasn't had sex yet, for way more years than I thought I'd have to suffer through, and I think about that fact every morning when I wake up and every night when I go to sleep. I know exactly what is being asked.