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Originally Posted by jigsaw44
Serenity, why would they treat a young little girl like that. What happened on you part in order for them to do that to you. This seems so heartless and displays the lack of compassion a human should have for one another (they have no heart and no Christ- as they discard the most important commandments). You don't have to share details but it's just appalling on how they treated you. Also trust me, the gossip is so obvious- you can just tell when you are the topic of discussion of the week.
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I wont go into detail but I guess just being a very depressing person with “negative”thoughts, too many unwanted questions about the ministry, refusing to follow the clothing guidelines in the church meetings (aka skirts for sisters)- I wore pants, migraines (which prevented me from attending all the church meetings) and not being absolute or cookie cutter gingerbread sister, and hints of having romantic feelings (which I never acted upon) for another sister who happened to be my bible study partner. I got called “poison” too many times and got avoided like the plague. Yes, I broke too many of their rules, which were not God’s rules. At least this is what I thought were all the reasons for their behavior. The elders never told me in detail why they decide to kick me out. They refuse to answer my questions when I asked why I was kicked out. Just very very vague: we dont think we want you here. Go somewhere else. You are ruining the atmosphere, etc