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kumbaya · 09-05-2019, 11:14 AM

I mean this with love. You’re going to have grow a backbone. You don’t owe them answers. You can still be kind and exercise boundaries. No matter what, people will realize you’ve left and they will be hurt bc many in the LC project their feelings on to others and take it personally when people don’t feel the same as they do. You can only control yourself, not them. I’m sorry to be blunt but I’ve seen this play out so many times. You can’t control what others do or how they feel. You can only control yourself. Focus on you, your husband, your children, and your marriage. You will undoubtably have enough to worry about without adding the burden of caring what others think of you.

09-05-2019, 11:14 AM	#2
kumbaya Member Join Date: Dec 2017 Posts: 250	Re: How do you leave without making a scene? I mean this with love. You’re going to have grow a backbone. You don’t owe them answers. You can still be kind and exercise boundaries. No matter what, people will realize you’ve left and they will be hurt bc many in the LC project their feelings on to others and take it personally when people don’t feel the same as they do. You can only control yourself, not them. I’m sorry to be blunt but I’ve seen this play out so many times. You can’t control what others do or how they feel. You can only control yourself. Focus on you, your husband, your children, and your marriage. You will undoubtably have enough to worry about without adding the burden of caring what others think of you.