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Originally Posted by MrsS
Our 23 year old daughter shocked us with her recent decision to quit her well paying full time job so that she could attend FTTA this Feb! She feels strongly that she is being called to go. She encouraged us to research, which we did, and we have several huge issues....why are all suggested readings from the same author? Why is every moment of your day regimented if you're suppossed to be learning how to live a 'typical Christiam life'? Why are you not allowed to question in a 'learning environment'? She is unphased by any concerns and remains adament that God is calling her there.
Our family is distraught! We don't know what to do or say!
Please, please.....if anyone has advice?!
Thank you so much
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MrsS,
You obviously love your daughter very much and you apparently want just what you believe is best for her. We all want that for our children. Your daughter is a young adult and from your description she has had a deep and moving experience of the Lord so she wants to pursue Him more. No doubt that desire for the Lord would please any parent as I'm sure it does you. Correct?
Here's the thing. Your daughter encouraged you to investigate. This forum has been part of your investigation but have you reached out to other parents whose children have gone to the FTTA? They might give you additional insight. Or, this friend's mother you mentioned. Might be beneficial to discuss it with her and share your concerns. Still, why not request someone from the local church to speak with about it? or request a meeting with the administrators in FTT... or ask for a private tour of all the aspects of the FTT your daughter will experience. If you are close enough you can also attend some of the meetings of FTT or a graduation.
These are merely suggestions..... with these you might gain additional insight. It may change your view or may solidify your view... but it will remove much of the unknown and much of the uncertainty.
Drake