[awareness]

I hate to bring this up, but I've seen it before, even right here in Kentucky, not LC related, but given the gravity of this decision, bro jmar needs to consider all possibilities.

I know according to jmar this sister is a very sweet girl. But there's a possibility that she has ideas in her mind that she will eventually covert him.

The LC certainly believe that they are better than any church jmar can go to. If the sister is very suggestible, she may be being used for a LC type of Flirty Fishing.

My marriage was manipulated in such a way. The purpose wasn't conversion, we were both already in the LC, but to recruit young people to the c. in Detroit, where Kangas (now the replacement, or oracle, of Witness Lee 'as The Minister of the Age') was the lead.

Be careful bro jmar. Listen to boughtbyJesus, who is going thru it right now. Marriage is a long time commitment. It can be good, and go bad, and the commitment means you have to hang in there even if it becomes a living hell. I wouldn't wish a bad marriage on anyone.