Re: Practically engaged to an LCer
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Originally Posted by jmar
Yeah, you are right Ohio. What I meant was that I don't feel like I need to be with her because I'm not fully committed yet. If we marry I would never be accepting of divorce, so that's why I decided to post here in hopes that I can avoid hardship later. I never wanted divorce in my first marriage, but she did, and I may never completely understand why. Sadly, it only takes one to want divorce whereas it takes two for marriage.
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Despite the "vast online ministry" of LSM, there is next to nothing when it comes to counseling for engaged couples. In fact, it was not until after I left the program in 2005 that I realized their vast shortage of mature counsel. Those who were qualified over the years have been mostly expelled, and those who remain are basically held inside the confines of a dead man's books.
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