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Originally Posted by aron
Ex-member here. I strongly agree with ZNP. Stay connected, stay positive, don't express alarm/dismay. A 23-year old is free to choose whatever. (and 23 year-olds have done lots of dumb things. You have to let them. That is the 'growing up' process)...
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This is excellent advice. Very in line with what cult experts advise. That being said, it should be noted that this is HARD to do initially. But, you CAN actually make a plan that’s similar to these approaches. I haven’t seen a better model than Steve Hassan’s for doing this. Experience tends to lead to wisdom though- as seen here!