I wouldn’t worry about not hearing the Lord speak to me personally because he already has through His Son, apostles, and Spirit. It is more a matter of how I respond to the words he has already spoken to all of us.
God spoke that He is well pleased in His Son, that we should hear Him, and that He spoke to us in His Son. His Son is the radiance of His glory and the express image of His substance.
Luke 3:22
https://biblehub.com/blb/luke/3.htm
Matthew 17:5
https://biblehub.com/blb/matthew/17.htm
Hebrews 1
https://biblehub.com/blb/hebrews/1.htm
God sent His Son as the Word - we just need to behold His glory and believe in Him to have eternal life
John 1:1-14
https://biblehub.com/blb/john/1.htm
When we turn our heart to the Lord, behold and reflect Him, He transforms us into the same image as He.
2 Cor 3:16-18
https://biblehub.com/blb/2_corinthians/3.htm
God also sent apostles to speak God’s word to us. Hearing, believing, and being obedient to their word is the same as God’s word and causes us to enter into God’s rest. Such a word is living and active, divides soul from spirit and joints from marrow, and lays everything bare to the eyes of God the judge. Therefore, since we have such a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to what we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who was tempted in every way that we are, yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
God wants us to be diligent to be found by Him in peace, without spot and without blemish; and esteem the patience of our of our Lord as salvation, grow in grace and in knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity.
1 Thessalonians 2:13
https://biblehub.com/blb/1_thessalonians/2.htm
Hebrews 4:2:7-16
https://biblehub.com/bsb/hebrews/4.htm
2 Peter 3:15-18
https://biblehub.com/blb/2_peter/3.htm
Keep away from any brother who leads an undisciplined life, not in keeping with the word heard from the apostles.
2 Thess. 3:14
https://biblehub.com/bsb/2_thessalonians/3.htm
God wants us to receive in meekness the implanted word (spoken to us by the apostles) and be doers of the word and not hearers only.
James 1:25
https://biblehub.com/blb/james/1.htm
John exhorted us to hear what the Spirit has spoken to the churches in
Revelation 2 and 3
http://biblehub.net/search.php?q=Let...he+Spirit+says
So, what me worry about God not speaking to me? No way. He has indeed.
I hope this is an encouragement when it seems that God is silent.