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Old 12-16-2017, 12:00 PM   #89
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Originally Posted by Drake View Post
Kumbaya,

You are confusing finding comfort and solace with healing.

Healing requires a process that eventually leads one to another side and it often takes time. Yet, though observing many years, I do not see that here. One is not convincingly healed if they become belligerent and irritated when a reminder of their pain or discomfort makes an appearance. Nor is finding a like minded crowd or a group of sympathizers an indication of healing. Most likely just the opposite will be the case.

Drake
If Kumbaya was in a difficult situation, and she came to your meeting in tears and then smiled afterwards, would you then advise her about "confusing finding comfort and solace with healing," and then warn her about entering a "like minded crowd or a group of sympathizers?"

I didn't think so.

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