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Originally Posted by JJ

Nee's father figure was a sister.... Margaret E. Barber. She was very spiritual. But, unfortunately she provided discipline with little grace and love. Spirituality with a spirit of superiority versus grace and love was passed from generation to generation.

Both Nee and Lee often mentioned their mothers, and not to diminish their positive impact on our lives, but it does raise other issues. Without a positive and healthy father figure in our lives, strong alpha males often are simply unaware of the bully impact that others around them are confronted with.