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OGOP, members of this forum and I do not see eye to eye on many things. However, I believe your request of them is completely inappropriate and insulting. Where did you get the impression that they would be willing to collude with you in deception?
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Perhaps I worded my question improperly.
I'm asking about peoples experiences of their time while still a member of the church, but their hearts weren't in it.
I have been completely open about my feelings on the church with her, its just she wants us to get more involved before we leave, so that she feels comfortable in my decision to leave.
And I'm worried if I do get more involved its only going to be harder for me, mentally, to leave