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Originally Posted by Igzy
I agree with treating people with dignity and respect, but I don't see who did not do that.
Quite honestly, I don't think LCMers not remaining here has much to do with their not being treated with dignity and respect. I think the problem is they can't handle the truth. They have their version of "truth." When it is challenged they don't defend it with integrity, they run away claiming the challengers are toxic boogy men. We've seen it time and time again.
And so while I think people in general "deserve" respect, LCMers certainly don't work at earning it.
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For communication to take place, the first thing that must be communicated is respect. In my humble opinion, you did not express respect for Donalli's point of view. You were agressive with her and seemed to be more interested in your point of view than hers. You've questioned her integrity. You left it to her to earn your respect while being unwilling to receive and welcome her as a newcomer to the forum.
It seems to me that your objective was not communication, but to start a fight. You've stated that you don't see it, Igzy, so I'm just trying to help you see from another perspective.
Unfortunately, this is the kind of stuff that makes their point...we're just a bunch of negative opposers...don't even mess with them.
Nell
PS: Women don't communicate the same as men.