[Dave]

Originally Posted by awareness

If loveneverfails and her fiancé need something to give their whole life to the local church will do the job.

Joining is a serious life impacting decision, with real repercussions.

For this reason I wouldn't pray about this matter. I would weight what I and my fiancé needed out of life, both now, and what is seen in the future together, and do what's best to that end. And that's a very important matter.

I am sure that awareness would add as an addendum to his advice the following: ...and then pray about it...because prayer is an important part of the decision making process. In this case, prayer would lead you both to the same comfort zone which is what is important in your relationship....take care...dave