[finallyprettyokay]

blessD:

I am not sure we can ever make sure this doesn't happen again, somewhere. All we can do is understand it for ourselves, and help each other understand it. One of the biggest themes of healing is to know that you are not alone, that the same thing happened to other people. That's one of the things that can and does happen on this forum. We tell our stories, compare notes and start (or continue) to heal.

But we can make sure that we are not part of it, ever again. It may happen in some places, but I am pretty sure I won't be there. And I bet you won't either. God grant us the wisdom ---


fpo


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