sorry if it seems like i am following you brother Aaron:

.. not....to me
the Barber boys experience was normal.. for those of us that were in the church life 24/7 ..365 days a year .. for many many many years...their testimony is not shocking to me.. i am so so thankful they are liberated and out ...
some of you who were married or lived off 'campus' not in brothers or sisters houses may not realize how bad it was....
and Hope.. Don Rutledge .. i remember you as being a 'leading' one .. so you were not that much of a nobody..

God's Blessings....welcome and thanks for posting JOHN..