Well, Ohio, it was extremely plain to all that I was undesirable and not "good material". It was just one brother and I don't remember him over calling anyone else except for an unfortunate sister who sat beside me and asked if the song was a good one to call...I nodded and he over called her. Obviously, he thought I told her to call it. She was very hurt. The over calling stopped when that brother "migrated" except for rarely obvious ones that didn't really belong. It gave me wonderful opportunities to die to self
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