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Originally Posted by Esther
As a Chinese born Canadian, I can say that in some localities there is an overwhelming Chinese culture. If you didn’t know, Chinese culture operates based on honour and shame.
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Hi, Esther,
I can relate to your feeling. I am a Chinese-born American living in two different cultures. And that's why I said that Chinese saints suffer even more in the Lord's Recovery, especially, females. I have seen sisters suffer from their husbands because of "submissions." And their daughters repelled attending meetings for their two-faced dads, and the community murmured about those husbands' reputations.
I have seen sisters working in the Anaheim DCP department suffering mentally. A sister asked for help from the elders with her domestic violence, and the answer was "she" was the problem. A widowed brother pursued a widowed sister and got married, but the brother was not willing to register for marriage because he wanted to get the pension of her late wife.....All these were covered up. Gradually, sisters accepted (or say brain-washed flatly) “they” were the problem.