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Old 01-01-2023, 07:39 PM   #13
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Default Re: Finally Writing About My Years in the Recovery

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Originally Posted by alwayscurious View Post
Going through this right now as I'm well into my college years and am still in the LC physically but checked out of it mentally. Met a really nice girl who's a Christian (not in LC fortunately, seems to love the Lord even more than I do sometimes, which is such a good sign), and we're currently in the talking/going on dates phase but I'm quite literally frozen in fear as to what will happen if I take the next step in actually starting a relationship with her. My parent would definitely be upset, maybe even furious, but I'm just not sure what the reaction will be among other saints in the LC when I make that decision. I just don't understand why the LC frowns on relationships that aren't centered ON the LC, like why does everything have to be "IN-HOUSE"?
The LC is what it is, and is not likely to change. It sounds like you have some decisions to make…have a long talk with Jesus.

Does your new friend know about the LC?

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