[Robert]

I just want to give balance to what I said.

On one hand I understand what he possibly could have in mind.
When we are led by Spirit, in obedience to Jesus, we can experience oneness with Him, and sometimes we can be limited in our preferences, and can be transformed into His image. Like denying our soul, which includes out taste, preferences etc.
In that meaning all we can and should experience such a state. Like being in sabbath- rest from our works.
But as Nell mentioned, mostly these non-essential words created big field to next suggestions what is what, end never ending definitions of definitions.

That is why I trust more the Bible than books about Bible.

For me big question often coming back is, if he was conscious of what he was doing ( controlling?) with others life?