[OBW]

In my in-and-out manner here on the forum, I didn't see this thread before.

I'm not sure that the question "ask him where, or if, he wants you to meet somewhere with others" is a good start. I think that we should always intend to meet somewhere with others. I realize that the verse about not meeting " as the practice of some is" does not clearly state that we should meet. But how hard do you have to be trying to avoid others to arrive at that conclusion?

I believe that meeting is somewhat imperative. And in the 66+ years I have been alive, the most I have missed some kind of weekly church (in the years I can actually remember) was probably during the 14.5 years I was in the LC. Still wasn't much. But since it was touted as the "only place" and sometimes was barely palatable (mostly toward the end of that 14.5 years) it probably takes the position of most missed assembly in my history.

Arguably, almost any assembly will do. While I still have some problems with the RCC, much to the chagrin of Ohio, I cannot write them off as completely reprobate or even un-Christian. But no matter the flavor, find an assembly that centers on Christ, not pet doctrines or activities. I also suggest worship that focuses more on Christ than on me and what He has done for me. I have been wishing for weekly communion — not because of the LC, but because I have come to see it as a cornerstone of the worship of God — and for the past 22 months have had that. Very different from the AOG (Assemblies of God) and Bible churches I have been with for most of my non-LC life.

And avoid any ideas that certain denominations are "Christless" or "dead." Such generalizations are invalid. Some people in any group may be dead. But the worship of Christ is never dead. Don't feel obligated to follow in the ways of your family's past. Or to do what bothers you so much that you are too distracted. So at some level, familiarity may be better. And at the same time, change may also be better. No simple answer. Join in with the intent to worship. It may overcome everything else.